Some personal thoughts on the study
Life can have “lowlights,” traumatic events that include illness, loss of a loved one, accidents, divorce, abuse, surviving war, and natural disasters. That is the short list. All of us, if we live long enough, will experience some sort of trauma.
And it has been my professional (and personal experience), that often it is our response to the event that determines our level of suffering much more than the nature of the event itself.
If you or someone you know and care about is trying to move on from trauma, I would like to share with you two powerful healing practices I have used for myself as well as for patients in helping to nurture the process of moving forward healthily from trauma.
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Before “moving on” from trauma, it is crucial, I believe, to fully acknowledge the trauma. Many of us would like to “power through” the period after surviving a traumatic event, in part I think because we like to believe that it will prevent remembering or “reliving” the event and thus prevent suffering. However, the opposite is often true. Buried emotions are still in your body and trust, they will find a way to come up to the surface at some point. And it might be in a form of serious dis-ease. Acknowledgement of trauma can look like talking about the event with someone with whom you feel safe, and letting yourself express emotion about it (whether in the form of tears, shouting, singing, writing, drawing, dancing etc). But I invite you to do it. Doing the above can be vital for healing both mentally and physically from the trauma and allowing you to engage int the second practice which is…
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Take the sh*t that happens and use it as fertilizer for growth. Trauma, for all its apparent awfulness, gives one the opportunity to get even more raw and real about yourself, your perception of life, relationships, and what is truly important to you. It gives us the opportunity to get even more present, to return to the here and now. It can help us to grow in love because when we experience trauma, we can empathize greater with others who are suffering. It offers a way to deepen in emotional resilience. And it offers us the lucky chance to ask ourselves with urgency and renewed passion, “what do I really want out of this precious and fragile life?…” and then to go for it.
Most of us have gone through (at least) one experience in our lives that our body and spirit comprehend as truly traumatic. Yet many of us may not realize that we are still experiencing symptoms of that trauma no matter how far removed from the experience we might be. The quiz below will help you identify if you have symptoms that are consistent with PTSD.